Guess who is almost THREE, by the way and can you believe? We have been having a heckuva time with this one at night. She wakes up twice a night crying, loudly, usually during the 12-1:00 am hour, and again between 4:30 and 5:30 am. The 2nd time is the most annoying for ME, because my alarm goes off at 5:35. Argh. But the 1st wake-up is probably most annoying for DH, who has just gotten himself into a comfortable sleep (meanwhile, I’m dead to the world and hardly ever hear the 1:00 wake-up). Same story as every other non-co-sleeping mom who ever blogged: we try not to engage her, pat her back to sleep, etc etc. DH figured out a month or two ago that she wants her bedroom door OPEN, so she can see into the hallway and our room, and that seems to help somewhat, but doesn’t solve the problem entirely.
I keep saying that it’s different this time: with AJ, we closed our doors and let him cry. “Man up!” I guess. With KT, I don’t want her to wake up AJ so I caaaaaaan’t let her just cry. (I know I CAN, but I just don’t.)
Saturday night was her coup de grace: Saturday she climbed over the crib rails and THUNKED down to the floor to perform her nighttime shenanigans. I put her back in bed and walked away. She climbed out again. And that, my friends, is not going to work for me. I know that kids will get out of beds that don’t have those handy prison bars, but at least they won’t fall and break their legs in the middle of the night (twice). So Sunday I went to Target to buy her a pretty new Tinkerbell comforter and sheets set, and tasked DH with removing the crib rail for the last time. Ta-da! Toddler bed.
She seems to love it. Dragged her new big-girl pillow upstairs and down yesterday afternoon, and wanted to make and re-make the bed after we put it together. (I also got some new fabric-covered bins for storage, which we both love. Her room has been a gigantic mess for a long time and I hope this will help. We’re practically a Pottery Barn Kids catalog now!)
She stayed in her bed all through last night, but she still woke up crying and stood up, per routine, at 4:55. Bless her heart, though – when it was finally wakeup time this morning, she was hard to rouse, all cozied up under her covers. THAT is the result I’m looking for.
Monday, January 31
Monday, January 24
Life is an easy pasta dinner
Or, life should be an easy pasta dinner. I know that because I accomplished it last night along with a good start on one of my so-called Resolutions: A friend came over to eat dinner with us!
She did the easy part by suggesting we get together, and it was easier for me to say, "Sure, come up for dinner!" than to consider getting all of us downtown to her condo. But the meal was simple -- sun-dried tomato pasta with chicken, salad, and french bread -- and the company was so easy. She was my roommate before I got married and one of the best people I know. She's great with the kids (a teacher by trade), so when I start to feel awkward about how our lives have taken such different paths and what are we going to talk about now??... she doesn't mind letting the kids chat her up. She even left early, allowing us to get them bathed and in bed on-time. I'm unsure if she was aware of how helpful that was -- she couched it as "I have to get up early tomorrow," but she may just be THAT considerate. Note for any of you single ladies who visit your friends with kids: it's nice to leave early on a Sunday night.
KT has had a cough now for 3-4 weeks. Mostly at night. I'm almost certain that it's nothing, but that 2% unsure is instigating worries about pneumonia and I wouldn't want to let that sit and percolate. So to the Pediatrician we go, this afternoon. They'll say, "Has she had a fever?" No. "Any other symptoms?" No. Well, yes, nasal stuff 2 weeks ago. "Turn on a humidifier and call us if it worsens." But this is what we have to do.
She did the easy part by suggesting we get together, and it was easier for me to say, "Sure, come up for dinner!" than to consider getting all of us downtown to her condo. But the meal was simple -- sun-dried tomato pasta with chicken, salad, and french bread -- and the company was so easy. She was my roommate before I got married and one of the best people I know. She's great with the kids (a teacher by trade), so when I start to feel awkward about how our lives have taken such different paths and what are we going to talk about now??... she doesn't mind letting the kids chat her up. She even left early, allowing us to get them bathed and in bed on-time. I'm unsure if she was aware of how helpful that was -- she couched it as "I have to get up early tomorrow," but she may just be THAT considerate. Note for any of you single ladies who visit your friends with kids: it's nice to leave early on a Sunday night.
KT has had a cough now for 3-4 weeks. Mostly at night. I'm almost certain that it's nothing, but that 2% unsure is instigating worries about pneumonia and I wouldn't want to let that sit and percolate. So to the Pediatrician we go, this afternoon. They'll say, "Has she had a fever?" No. "Any other symptoms?" No. Well, yes, nasal stuff 2 weeks ago. "Turn on a humidifier and call us if it worsens." But this is what we have to do.
Thursday, January 20
The usual, plus
I have missed my blog people! I've been in an intense week of work training, and literally in meetings since Monday morning at 8:00 a.m. (That first one was 4 hours in a room with no windows, ack.) I can at least say I'm grateful the training has been with a pleasant person. And we've eaten out at places *I* got to choose, three days in a row, because he's from out of town. But actually I'm happy about getting to have a salad at my desk today. Too much of a good thing, and all.
Meanwhile, the kids went back to school this week after their 10-day snowcation. AJ told me that on Tuesday he got really sad about being back in school and his grandparents going home -- enough that they sent him to the counselor's office. He doesn't know the word "counselor," of course, just that Ms. R. is everyone's friend, and they talked about the snow days for a while, and he felt better. It made me sad in a way, but on the other hand, when I was in grade school... etc. etc. uphill both ways. I'm glad the counselor is available when my sweetie-pie is a little weepy.
Spring t-ball is about to start up, and Cub Scouts (KT calls it "Scub Scouts," and I hope she never corrects that) is intensifying with the actual Pinewood Derby coming up. Never thought I'd be involved in one of those! I'm mostly not, yet - DH is heading up that project. What else? I need to make trips to the dry cleaners, the grocery store, and to get AJ a haircut. Friday is DH's birthday and I'm a little behind on the preparations -- nothing fancy per usual, but I'd like to cook him something he likes, and have a candle, at least. I've also GOT to make plans for KT's birthday in February. I know where I want to have it, but need a reservation STAT. It'll be her first birthday party with Friends, not just family. :)
When I do have some downtime, I've been reading on my Kindle. I started and finished the Carl Hiassen celebrity-stalking novel, Star Island, and I give it a B-. I wanted to finish it and it was a subject I didn't know much about, so I learned (?) something, but it was kinda ucky overall, and not emotionally satisfying at all. Now I've gone back to Cutting for Stone by Abraham Verghese, and it's really starting to pick up. More on that later.
I've had to avoid Twitter for the most part this week, but have been proud of Nicole for moving every day in 2011! Waiting with bated breath re: Jess' babywatch, checking in on Marie Green's snow, relating to Lag Liv's most recent post, and eager to talk more with my friend MB about her new job! Like I said, I miss all you guys! Weekend's coming! See you then!
Meanwhile, the kids went back to school this week after their 10-day snowcation. AJ told me that on Tuesday he got really sad about being back in school and his grandparents going home -- enough that they sent him to the counselor's office. He doesn't know the word "counselor," of course, just that Ms. R. is everyone's friend, and they talked about the snow days for a while, and he felt better. It made me sad in a way, but on the other hand, when I was in grade school... etc. etc. uphill both ways. I'm glad the counselor is available when my sweetie-pie is a little weepy.
Spring t-ball is about to start up, and Cub Scouts (KT calls it "Scub Scouts," and I hope she never corrects that) is intensifying with the actual Pinewood Derby coming up. Never thought I'd be involved in one of those! I'm mostly not, yet - DH is heading up that project. What else? I need to make trips to the dry cleaners, the grocery store, and to get AJ a haircut. Friday is DH's birthday and I'm a little behind on the preparations -- nothing fancy per usual, but I'd like to cook him something he likes, and have a candle, at least. I've also GOT to make plans for KT's birthday in February. I know where I want to have it, but need a reservation STAT. It'll be her first birthday party with Friends, not just family. :)
When I do have some downtime, I've been reading on my Kindle. I started and finished the Carl Hiassen celebrity-stalking novel, Star Island, and I give it a B-. I wanted to finish it and it was a subject I didn't know much about, so I learned (?) something, but it was kinda ucky overall, and not emotionally satisfying at all. Now I've gone back to Cutting for Stone by Abraham Verghese, and it's really starting to pick up. More on that later.
I've had to avoid Twitter for the most part this week, but have been proud of Nicole for moving every day in 2011! Waiting with bated breath re: Jess' babywatch, checking in on Marie Green's snow, relating to Lag Liv's most recent post, and eager to talk more with my friend MB about her new job! Like I said, I miss all you guys! Weekend's coming! See you then!
Thursday, January 13
Three Snow Days in a Row!
Or: This Is Unlikely to Ever Happen Again; Glad We Enjoyed It
Predictions were dead-on over the weekend that we would have a 100% chance of snow and ice overnight Sunday. I dutifully went to the grocery store Sunday afternoon, to procure my bread and milk. (Actually it was my typical weekend trip to the store - I was embarassed to be there with all the other panickers. But in hindsight, I'm very glad about it!) It snowed, and after about 4 inches, it began the sleet/freezing rain combo that made everything crunchy on top. We took Napoleon out at 8:30 pm and it was barely sprinkling. Then at 9:30, looked out the window and everything was already covered.
This is not unusual, I'm sure, to any northerners among my readers, but for us it was strange and unbelievable. :) We woke to a winter wonderland, and even better than that, all schools closed (and even my office, kindly letting us know Sunday night that they'd be closed Monday). The ice-covered roads would make it impossible to drive, since Atlanta, and especially the suburbs, aren't prepared with plows or salters or whatever it is you guys have up there that allow you to live with this stuff all the time!
Around 9 am Monday we bundled up for our 1st snow adventure. The kids enjoyed "Snow Lollipops" (icicles, which they aptly named -- I'd never called them that as a kid); we did our snow angels though it was hard to break the ice layer on top; threw snowballs, got wet; breathed the crisp air. And then our upstate-New York neighbors, bless them, pulled out the sleds. Our street is one lonnnnng hill, and it was solid ice. Some of us had fun -- my kids and I didn't sled, although I kinda wanted to. All the neighbors were out and I love community gatherings like that. Our snowman's name is "Oatmeal."
Turns out my office didn't open until TODAY, so I've had three (five, including the weekend) full days with no responsibility other than my family, and my home. It has been delicious. Like a very extended Christmas break. I've been so grateful for the time, and grateful that my mood didn't ever -- somehow -- turn sour, or get tired of it, or cabin-fever-y. The kids have been great. DH was home with us through Wednesday morning. We've played a ton of board games, watched movies, eaten chili. My parents arrived safely yesterday (for an already-planned visit), and it worked out well because the kids are off school again today.
We'll see what tomorrow brings. The sun is shining now, and all is bright.
Predictions were dead-on over the weekend that we would have a 100% chance of snow and ice overnight Sunday. I dutifully went to the grocery store Sunday afternoon, to procure my bread and milk. (Actually it was my typical weekend trip to the store - I was embarassed to be there with all the other panickers. But in hindsight, I'm very glad about it!) It snowed, and after about 4 inches, it began the sleet/freezing rain combo that made everything crunchy on top. We took Napoleon out at 8:30 pm and it was barely sprinkling. Then at 9:30, looked out the window and everything was already covered.
This is not unusual, I'm sure, to any northerners among my readers, but for us it was strange and unbelievable. :) We woke to a winter wonderland, and even better than that, all schools closed (and even my office, kindly letting us know Sunday night that they'd be closed Monday). The ice-covered roads would make it impossible to drive, since Atlanta, and especially the suburbs, aren't prepared with plows or salters or whatever it is you guys have up there that allow you to live with this stuff all the time!
Around 9 am Monday we bundled up for our 1st snow adventure. The kids enjoyed "Snow Lollipops" (icicles, which they aptly named -- I'd never called them that as a kid); we did our snow angels though it was hard to break the ice layer on top; threw snowballs, got wet; breathed the crisp air. And then our upstate-New York neighbors, bless them, pulled out the sleds. Our street is one lonnnnng hill, and it was solid ice. Some of us had fun -- my kids and I didn't sled, although I kinda wanted to. All the neighbors were out and I love community gatherings like that. Our snowman's name is "Oatmeal."
Turns out my office didn't open until TODAY, so I've had three (five, including the weekend) full days with no responsibility other than my family, and my home. It has been delicious. Like a very extended Christmas break. I've been so grateful for the time, and grateful that my mood didn't ever -- somehow -- turn sour, or get tired of it, or cabin-fever-y. The kids have been great. DH was home with us through Wednesday morning. We've played a ton of board games, watched movies, eaten chili. My parents arrived safely yesterday (for an already-planned visit), and it worked out well because the kids are off school again today.
We'll see what tomorrow brings. The sun is shining now, and all is bright.
Friday, January 7
Messy
Remember how I said my “life lesson” for 2010 was, “This is life. Life is messy.” Hohoho, remember that? That was funny. Because:
1. We are in the midst of a car-buying process. It started out so well, y’all. We (DH) had heard a lot about Ford’s new Sync system, and since he’s a tech-head, we totally wanted to check it out. We have not driven Fords in YEARS for all the obvious reasons, but the economy… cars re-tooled and improved blahblahcakes, plus: Sync. So we trooped over there dutifully during the last week of the sales year, to get ourselves a Hot Deal. Loooong story short, after we got the numbers we wanted, the color we wanted, and SIGNED everything Wednesday night with wild kids in tow… the car didn’t actually have Sync in it. DH was turning the ignition to drive it home, when this was discovered. We hadn’t thought to ask specifically because we figured all 2011 models would have it, AND there was a “Sync” sticker IN THE CAR. On the dash. “Microsoft Sync.” Purple sticker. Huge. … Anyway, we think we are going to do an easy swap tonight, for a car with Sync like we wanted, but I don’t want to jinx it so I’ll shut up now. We knew everythign had gone too smoothly to be true. This week has been mentally stressful and logistically nuts. And by the way, two kids, after school, inside a dealership for 2 hours, TWICE in one week. Exciting!
2. Something at work went up in smoke yesterday after I had left for the day. Can’t divulge, naturally, but let me say this: If you are in a company who makes things, and you launch new products periodically, IT HELPS to TELL the marketing department when a launch date is being delayed. (cough I sent out an email blast cough for a coughcough product that’s not available yet cough).
3. Our house is a messsssssssss. It’s making DH and me crazy, both of us, but with the car nonsense and the first week back at school, nothing has been done to remove the Christmas tree, for instance, or the layer of dust piling up on our dresser. We’re hopeful that we can get the car situation finalized today and move on to Cleanliness this weekend. Of course the car project is creating additional projects, like rearranging the garage to accommodate the new vehicle (we’re going from a compact Corolla to a not-so-compact SUV class). Rearranging the garage means removing some outdoor toddler toys that are old and not being used… Goodwill or yard sale decisions, etc etc. If I think too much about it, I start getting overwhelmed.
I haven’t worked out 2 nights in a row now, which is just making me pissy. I was determined, dangit. It will all resolve, I know it will, but. Well. Just keep swimming right? TGIF, people.
Wednesday, January 5
Reporting in
I love being good-sore. Jillian Michaels' yoga is No Joke. I'm taking a break from it tonight to let my muscles recover, but planning to do a walk with my co-worker. I earned a "You Logged In 3 Days In a Row" badge from Livestrong.com! Hahahaha! Woooooo... go me. This morning I made the grown-up choice and got Starbucks' Perfect Oatmeal with my coffee.
(Tomorrow, however, I am going to try my free Spicy Chicken Biscuit from Chick-Fil-A, and I don't care how many calories it costs me. I'll have salad and water the rest of the day. You gotta live, you know?)
And I flossed. :) How are you all doing with your stuff so far?
Monday, January 3
Yogurt and floss
I've been so hesitant to post Les Resolutions because on all of mine from last year, I epic-failed. It's embarrassing. Even the non-physical ones, like painting a few rooms in our house, didn't happen. Not entirely my fault, of course, just circumstances and wanting to take a break from the hectic pace of life sometimes. Still. It makes me wary. WARY!
However, I like the idea that I've seen in several places, of making resolutions that are NOT diet-related, and also of resolving to do a couple of little things that should be EASY to accomplish. Why didn't I think of that before?! So let's talk about those, and then we'll move on to the Health Kick portion of our program.
1. In 2011, I will floss my teeth more. I was originally planning to say, I will floss my teeth every day, but no, dumbass, don't set yourself up to fail on the EASY one. And do any of you floss every day? If so, I'm not sure I believe you and also, Good Job. So, floss more. (More often than hardly ever will be easy.)
2. In 2011, I will have at least 2 small dinner parties. I know that doesn't seem like a lot, if you are a good and frequent hostess, but I am decidedly not.
3. In 2011, I will try to develop a taste for yogurt. This is relative to a health kick, naturally, and I think I've mentioned before how I really don't love yogurt, but I try to eat it sometimes because of its Super Food status. Today I actually tried and finished a 5.3-oz serving of Organic Greek yogurt! It had blueberries on the bottom, and I had to eat it slowly but fast -- as in, each bite had several minutes between them, but I licked and swallowed them down as quickly as I could. And I didn't hate it, at the end. I didn't gag a single time. Progress. And organic greek, that's like Bonus Points or something!
I could make a million more resolutions (read more, connect with friends and family better, more prayer, etc), but I think three is a nice, round number and I don't care to make a huge show of it this year. I do believe in the idea of trying to make each year better than the last, I just got so discouraged looking at last year's list. I was temtped to forego this exercise altogether so consider yourselves lucky, if you like reading people's resolutions!
Now, the health kick: As every year, I have America's goals of getting fit and losing weight. 10 pounds would be a nice start, and what I'd really like is for my stinking pants not to be so tight, gahhhh. I have been tracking calories again on Livestrong.com's MyPlate. I like it best because it's fast software, it includes an App for my phone, and it has a pretty cool "Add a Glass of Water" feature which is also something I need to do, drink more water. :)
I'm also determined to try new foods with my family. Tonight we had moderate success with roasted vegetables (carrots, sweet potatoes, which heretofore none of my family members have liked). AJ reluctantly tried his 2 required bites dipped in ketchup; KT said they were good but didn't want anyone to KNOW she thought so, and refused to eat any more than her 2 bites. DH ate and enjoyed, I think! I loved them and the whole house still smells like them since our oven sort-of stamps and seals the scent from anything we cook over 400 degrees until at least 10 am the next day.
And Jillian and I just had a Yoga Meltdown date. First Monday, DONE. My sister in law gave me the DVD for Christmas - one thing we share in common is an interest in working out, although her follow-through is much, much better than mine! I had visions of starting a "wakeup at 5:00 am every day" plan, because that feels like the only feasible time. A real-life friend and her husband did that in 2010, every single day, they said. I was impressed. But this morning.... ugh. No good when the 2-yr-old wakes me at 4:00 am and proceeds to take up my 1/2 of the bed until the alarm beeps.
Please to send the good vibes this way for exercise mojo and no whammies.
However, I like the idea that I've seen in several places, of making resolutions that are NOT diet-related, and also of resolving to do a couple of little things that should be EASY to accomplish. Why didn't I think of that before?! So let's talk about those, and then we'll move on to the Health Kick portion of our program.
1. In 2011, I will floss my teeth more. I was originally planning to say, I will floss my teeth every day, but no, dumbass, don't set yourself up to fail on the EASY one. And do any of you floss every day? If so, I'm not sure I believe you and also, Good Job. So, floss more. (More often than hardly ever will be easy.)
2. In 2011, I will have at least 2 small dinner parties. I know that doesn't seem like a lot, if you are a good and frequent hostess, but I am decidedly not.
3. In 2011, I will try to develop a taste for yogurt. This is relative to a health kick, naturally, and I think I've mentioned before how I really don't love yogurt, but I try to eat it sometimes because of its Super Food status. Today I actually tried and finished a 5.3-oz serving of Organic Greek yogurt! It had blueberries on the bottom, and I had to eat it slowly but fast -- as in, each bite had several minutes between them, but I licked and swallowed them down as quickly as I could. And I didn't hate it, at the end. I didn't gag a single time. Progress. And organic greek, that's like Bonus Points or something!
I could make a million more resolutions (read more, connect with friends and family better, more prayer, etc), but I think three is a nice, round number and I don't care to make a huge show of it this year. I do believe in the idea of trying to make each year better than the last, I just got so discouraged looking at last year's list. I was temtped to forego this exercise altogether so consider yourselves lucky, if you like reading people's resolutions!
Now, the health kick: As every year, I have America's goals of getting fit and losing weight. 10 pounds would be a nice start, and what I'd really like is for my stinking pants not to be so tight, gahhhh. I have been tracking calories again on Livestrong.com's MyPlate. I like it best because it's fast software, it includes an App for my phone, and it has a pretty cool "Add a Glass of Water" feature which is also something I need to do, drink more water. :)
I'm also determined to try new foods with my family. Tonight we had moderate success with roasted vegetables (carrots, sweet potatoes, which heretofore none of my family members have liked). AJ reluctantly tried his 2 required bites dipped in ketchup; KT said they were good but didn't want anyone to KNOW she thought so, and refused to eat any more than her 2 bites. DH ate and enjoyed, I think! I loved them and the whole house still smells like them since our oven sort-of stamps and seals the scent from anything we cook over 400 degrees until at least 10 am the next day.
And Jillian and I just had a Yoga Meltdown date. First Monday, DONE. My sister in law gave me the DVD for Christmas - one thing we share in common is an interest in working out, although her follow-through is much, much better than mine! I had visions of starting a "wakeup at 5:00 am every day" plan, because that feels like the only feasible time. A real-life friend and her husband did that in 2010, every single day, they said. I was impressed. But this morning.... ugh. No good when the 2-yr-old wakes me at 4:00 am and proceeds to take up my 1/2 of the bed until the alarm beeps.
Please to send the good vibes this way for exercise mojo and no whammies.
Christmas Memories
Christmas Pajamas
Christmas Dress
Christmas Snow!
p.s. Resolutions to come after I succeed at First Monday...!
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