Okay, fine. I'm a sucker for a blogging prompt as evidenced by '09 and '08. I'm also bored at work. I do have some tasks, but... aykm? On Dec 30? Forget it. So here is my 2010 review:
1. What did you do in 2010 that you’d never done before?
Hmm. Started going to the office at 6:30 am. And had an honest-to-goodness White Christmas.
2. Did you keep your new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
Skip.
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
Nicole! Her 6th! She is amazing. Also my neighbors next-door, across the street, and next-door in the cube! But those 3 are 'close' in proximity only.
4. Did anyone close to you die?
No.
5. What countries did you visit?
Oh, come on.
6. What would you like to have in 2011 that you lacked in 2010?
Lottery winnings.
7. What dates from 2010 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
I think June, because it was the first time AJ went to his grandparents' house all by himself for a week. :)
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
I think making Flex-Time work for us was a big achievement. It's not always easy, but it satisfies one of my wishes, which is to be a little bit more present for AJ as he tackles school and homework and such.
9. What was your biggest failure?
After a decent start in the spring, and even a good idea in the fall, I let my motivation to exercise completely deflate to zero. I've got to reboot, again, in that department. FRICKINFRACKIN.
10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
Only minor ones, I guess. That one weird stomach bug during a T-ball game that made me faint and put me down for at least 2 days, in the bed! And asthma returned to my life in November, which is not cool. It's died down for the last few weeks but I should probably look into the better management of that. I.E., get myself to a doctor.
11. What was the best thing you bought?
New inhaler? No, I think all the Christmas presents we bought this year were well received. Kids and adults, alike. We did good!
12. Where did most of your money go?
We replaced one of 2 AC units in our house, so that was a big chunk, and we had to pay for Puppy's surgery, but other than that we didn't have gigantic expenses this year, thank goodness.
13. What did you get really excited about?
The Spring T-ball playoffs were such fun, and I got very excited about our trip to North Carolina in the fall. I'm about to get excited about a new car purchase!
14. What song will always remind you of 2010?
The Phineas and Ferb theme song, I'm sure. Lovers in Japan by Coldplay. The choral Christmas album my sister sent me was really magical for me this year, most especially Veni Redemptor Gentium.
15. Compared to this time last year, are you: Happier or Sadder: Equally happy
Thinner or Fatter: Fatter
Richer or Poorer: Richer, I think. All my new oil money, heh.
16. What do you wish you’d done more of?
I'm torn because I want to say, "Having friends over." But I'm a homebody and recluse, too. I see other people having little parties -- I attend them -- and I think, "I should do something like this." I need to have our across the street neighbors over very soon, for dinner, and our T-ball buddies as well. So, fine: there are 2 resolutions for 2011.
17. What do you wish you'd done less of?
Aiming bad feelings toward my next door neighbors. But they're SOOOOOO annoying. Sigh. I can't win - I don't WANT to dislike them, but it's oh so satisfying.
18. How did you spend Christmas?
See here.
19. What was your favorite TV program?
Modern Family. And even Cougartown!
20. What were your favorite books of the year?
Loved The Help by Kathryn Stockett, and loved The Host by Stephanie Meyer. (Hey, another thing to love about the Kindle is it helps you 'remember' what you read during the year!)
21. What was your favorite music from this year?
Already answered that above, I think.
22. What were your favorite films of the year?
Finally saw Little Miss Sunshine, which I liked a lot. Saw the Twilight series, and enjoyed sharing that with DH. Still haven't seen HP and the Deathly Hallows, if you can believe. Sad about that. Oh, and I mentioned the Princess and the Frog yesterday! We saw a lot this year compared to years before!
23. What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?
Turned 36 in June. We had pizza dinner at Vincent's, a cute little restaurant nearby, and then cake with a candle at home afterwards. It was lovely!
24. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying? All in all, I think it WAS pretty satisfying. Just the lottery winnings, thanks.
25. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2010? About the same, heh. Pretty bad, heh. Needs Improvement. I did buy one sweater dress and tights that I love.
27. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2010.
This is life. Life is messy. Just ride along and try not to worry. I feel like that's how I got through this busy, but normal year. Just ride along. Just keep swimming, just keep swimming. :)
Thursday, December 30
A transition and phase
KT-pie,
I know it's a long day away from Mama. I know it's hard to be left there in the morning when none of your friends are there yet; Makenzie-Maddie-n-Addie make everything more fun. I know you've had a week off and returning to school is always a bummer. Believe me, I know that. I know it's scary to watch Mama walk out the door and I pray you aren't wondering if I'll even come back, because I will ALWAYS come back for you, at the end of every day. (Or Daddy will, which is even better.)
I also know you love your teachers. I know you turn around 5 seconds after I'm gone to start helping pass out plates and juice, and chattering away in your "little mommy" voice, probably directing your friends which chair to sit in, and saying "We don't spill/hit/bite, okayyy?" which is so darling... So please, I beg you, stop giving me the Oscar-winning performances and pitiful, quiet tears after I take off your coat. I thought we were over that part of our lives--the guilty/sad feeling of leaving you at daycare. I'm sure it's a phase but it's been an unpleasant reminder, this week, of the very earliest days of leaving your brother and you to go to work. Do Not Like. Cut it out. (sniff)
Love,
Mama
(which you're inexplicably calling me again after at least a full year of "Mommy.")
I know it's a long day away from Mama. I know it's hard to be left there in the morning when none of your friends are there yet; Makenzie-Maddie-n-Addie make everything more fun. I know you've had a week off and returning to school is always a bummer. Believe me, I know that. I know it's scary to watch Mama walk out the door and I pray you aren't wondering if I'll even come back, because I will ALWAYS come back for you, at the end of every day. (Or Daddy will, which is even better.)
I also know you love your teachers. I know you turn around 5 seconds after I'm gone to start helping pass out plates and juice, and chattering away in your "little mommy" voice, probably directing your friends which chair to sit in, and saying "We don't spill/hit/bite, okayyy?" which is so darling... So please, I beg you, stop giving me the Oscar-winning performances and pitiful, quiet tears after I take off your coat. I thought we were over that part of our lives--the guilty/sad feeling of leaving you at daycare. I'm sure it's a phase but it's been an unpleasant reminder, this week, of the very earliest days of leaving your brother and you to go to work. Do Not Like. Cut it out. (sniff)
Love,
Mama
(which you're inexplicably calling me again after at least a full year of "Mommy.")
Wednesday, December 29
…And we’re not through yet
It was so lovely to have the week off before Christmas. Typically I like to take this week in-between, like most people do, but this way worked out very well. I’m not even too sad to be here in the office this week, because Monday and Friday were/are holidays, and a lot of coworkers are out, so it’s not stressful. Yesterday our daycare was closed in the morning, unexpectedly, so I went to the office to grab my laptop (with the two kids in tow), exchanged “How were your Christmases?” with two work buddies, and worked from home until 1:00. Obviously I babysat the kids with their new DVDs – first The Princess and the Frog, and then Alice in Wonderland (the original cartoon), and it was nice to have that extra half-day with them. We made popcorn.
I couldn’t resist watching the P and the F’s final half-hour, and I must say I loved the whole movie. I thought they did New Orleans perfectly, and the cast was amazing. I made the kids sit through all the credits to see the cast list, because I thought surely there would be some surprise A-listers on it. But not really! Most were people I hadn’t heard of. One of my absolute favorite things to do, movie-wise, is to figure out who voices the animated characters just by listening. Do you do that? The first time I saw Cars, I spent the entire movie trying to place the voice of the female Porche, Sally. Bonnie Hunt!! I had a hard time with that one but enjoyed the challenge. Anyway, in the P and the F I immediately loved John Goodman’s role, and Oprah’s, and… then I was at a loss. I almost thought that the Prince was Sacha Baron Cohen. Glad that turned out to be false.
Did you have a White Christmas? We did. And I need to record it because it may never happen again, or at least that's how it feels. Maybe global warming means it WILL happen, every year, but all I know is that's the first time in my 36 years that I was indoors on Christmas Day, watching big flakes fall out of the sky, and stick to the ground, ALL DAY LONG. We had the warmth of the kitchen as we cooked our 4:00 Christmas dinner, carols playing On the Eights because we kept it on the Weather Channel a good part of the day, and it just felt cozy and beautiful. (Although the floor got dirty as we tracked it in.) The kids loved their gifts. AJ's favorite was, of course, his DSi handheld, but more for the extra features (built-in digital camera and editing abilities). He is also pretty jazzed about the Lego Harry Potter board game and ALL his Ben10 action figures. KT loves playing her Dora Memory Game, and the Barbie swimming pool (without water!). I love leaving the Christmas toys out for a few days and just watching them immerse themselves.
So, after we get through these three days of supposedly very productive work (ahem), we’ll drive down to Savannah for more celebrations with DH’s brother and SIL. They have a new house and a brand-new puppy. I’m excited to see the house and I know the kids are going to go nuts over the puppy. Unfortunately, she is named “Shania.” I am sorry but I think that’s a terrible dog name. How do you create cute little poopie-doopie nicknames from “Shania?” She-She? Nia? Shanny? There’s nothing good.
Other things on my mind here as the year winds up… :: Our family’s overall diet needs to improve in 2011 – as in, more fiber, less crap, especially for my kids. :: We want to scope out and buy a new car this week (deals!) but we can’t seem to find one that we just love –we’re going to drive the Ford Edge today. :: Words with Friends! DH and I are still obsessed with this game. He’s beaten me 2 out of 3 but I’m about to win the 3rd game. :: I got a Buy One, Get One free coupon from Weightloss Wars yesterday and I’m tempted by it – anyone want to do a competition with me? I’ve never done one there but it might be fun and I definitely need to be held accountable. Even without the competition, I have a goal to get fit this year like DH did last year (and I know I say it all the damn time, but such is life). :: On an unrelated note, my parents got me the wine club membership I wanted, and sis got me the stemless glasses! So obviously 2011 is going to be a good year!
I couldn’t resist watching the P and the F’s final half-hour, and I must say I loved the whole movie. I thought they did New Orleans perfectly, and the cast was amazing. I made the kids sit through all the credits to see the cast list, because I thought surely there would be some surprise A-listers on it. But not really! Most were people I hadn’t heard of. One of my absolute favorite things to do, movie-wise, is to figure out who voices the animated characters just by listening. Do you do that? The first time I saw Cars, I spent the entire movie trying to place the voice of the female Porche, Sally. Bonnie Hunt!! I had a hard time with that one but enjoyed the challenge. Anyway, in the P and the F I immediately loved John Goodman’s role, and Oprah’s, and… then I was at a loss. I almost thought that the Prince was Sacha Baron Cohen. Glad that turned out to be false.
Did you have a White Christmas? We did. And I need to record it because it may never happen again, or at least that's how it feels. Maybe global warming means it WILL happen, every year, but all I know is that's the first time in my 36 years that I was indoors on Christmas Day, watching big flakes fall out of the sky, and stick to the ground, ALL DAY LONG. We had the warmth of the kitchen as we cooked our 4:00 Christmas dinner, carols playing On the Eights because we kept it on the Weather Channel a good part of the day, and it just felt cozy and beautiful. (Although the floor got dirty as we tracked it in.) The kids loved their gifts. AJ's favorite was, of course, his DSi handheld, but more for the extra features (built-in digital camera and editing abilities). He is also pretty jazzed about the Lego Harry Potter board game and ALL his Ben10 action figures. KT loves playing her Dora Memory Game, and the Barbie swimming pool (without water!). I love leaving the Christmas toys out for a few days and just watching them immerse themselves.
So, after we get through these three days of supposedly very productive work (ahem), we’ll drive down to Savannah for more celebrations with DH’s brother and SIL. They have a new house and a brand-new puppy. I’m excited to see the house and I know the kids are going to go nuts over the puppy. Unfortunately, she is named “Shania.” I am sorry but I think that’s a terrible dog name. How do you create cute little poopie-doopie nicknames from “Shania?” She-She? Nia? Shanny? There’s nothing good.
Other things on my mind here as the year winds up… :: Our family’s overall diet needs to improve in 2011 – as in, more fiber, less crap, especially for my kids. :: We want to scope out and buy a new car this week (deals!) but we can’t seem to find one that we just love –we’re going to drive the Ford Edge today. :: Words with Friends! DH and I are still obsessed with this game. He’s beaten me 2 out of 3 but I’m about to win the 3rd game. :: I got a Buy One, Get One free coupon from Weightloss Wars yesterday and I’m tempted by it – anyone want to do a competition with me? I’ve never done one there but it might be fun and I definitely need to be held accountable. Even without the competition, I have a goal to get fit this year like DH did last year (and I know I say it all the damn time, but such is life). :: On an unrelated note, my parents got me the wine club membership I wanted, and sis got me the stemless glasses! So obviously 2011 is going to be a good year!
Thursday, December 23
Merry
We have done some baking. Sand Tarts, Swistle's Mint-Chocolate Brownies (so good!), and just now my MIL and AJ whipped up some chocolate chip cookie dough, for cookies to be baked tonight. Gotta have plenty for Santa, you know. I actually enjoyed letting her run my kitchen for a while -- I got out the ingredients for her, so she wouldn't have to go digging blind in my pantry, but I know that her normal place during the holidays is in the kitchen, so I'm sure she feels a bit untethered when she's not at her house. I don't think she felt put upon, just something fun to do to pass the holiday time. AJ has become quite adept at the counter, measuring out sugar and Tablespoons and sampling chocolate chips (he's a natural!). He won't crack eggs, but I don't blame him. I have a small fear of getting shells in my cookies, myself.
I got to do a solo shopping trip this morning -- basically I just left, with FIL in charge. Might not have been wise, heh. But I went to Target for stocking stuffers and last minute brainstorms, and then to Publix for sausage dressing ingredients and some more chips. And bread, milk, and potty paper -- did you hear we might have snow? A whole INCH! It's going to be magical and maybe icy, and maybe something will get cancelled if we're lucky.
KT is being adorable. We got her hair cut yesterday before meeting DH at his office and taking him out to lunch (something I hope becomes a tradition). Except when she's refusing to take a nap; that's not adorable. Her go-to line is "I wanna snaaaack" when she's starting to get really tired. I know what she means: she wants something but can't put her finger on exactly what it is, so... it must be food she wants. (Hmm. Might need to address this problem before she gets too emotionally dependent on food like her genes might lend her to be, ahem. And yes, I HAVE been enjoying the cookies, thank you very much for asking.) We suckered her with blankie and Elf with Will Ferrell this afternoon, and she's still out on my bed right now.
DH and I are playing Words With Friends because the App Store has had a 99-cent sale on games. (I also got Tetris! 1995 FTW!) I love it. A tiny little connection and reason to smile about him during random moments in the day. He played the word "S-E-X" today, a ten-point letter and a subtle wink, all at the same time. Hee hee. Technology is keeping us sane for the holidays (as you can see by my typing here).
We're all healthy and happy, and I wish the same for all of you sweet people who keep coming here to read my thoughts. Merry, Merry Christmas, and blessings to fill your heart.
I got to do a solo shopping trip this morning -- basically I just left, with FIL in charge. Might not have been wise, heh. But I went to Target for stocking stuffers and last minute brainstorms, and then to Publix for sausage dressing ingredients and some more chips. And bread, milk, and potty paper -- did you hear we might have snow? A whole INCH! It's going to be magical and maybe icy, and maybe something will get cancelled if we're lucky.
KT is being adorable. We got her hair cut yesterday before meeting DH at his office and taking him out to lunch (something I hope becomes a tradition). Except when she's refusing to take a nap; that's not adorable. Her go-to line is "I wanna snaaaack" when she's starting to get really tired. I know what she means: she wants something but can't put her finger on exactly what it is, so... it must be food she wants. (Hmm. Might need to address this problem before she gets too emotionally dependent on food like her genes might lend her to be, ahem. And yes, I HAVE been enjoying the cookies, thank you very much for asking.) We suckered her with blankie and Elf with Will Ferrell this afternoon, and she's still out on my bed right now.
DH and I are playing Words With Friends because the App Store has had a 99-cent sale on games. (I also got Tetris! 1995 FTW!) I love it. A tiny little connection and reason to smile about him during random moments in the day. He played the word "S-E-X" today, a ten-point letter and a subtle wink, all at the same time. Hee hee. Technology is keeping us sane for the holidays (as you can see by my typing here).
We're all healthy and happy, and I wish the same for all of you sweet people who keep coming here to read my thoughts. Merry, Merry Christmas, and blessings to fill your heart.
Wednesday, December 15
Virus, as expected
My special snowflake is properly diagnosed, and he's fine enough today to go to school. I didn't take his temp but he didn't feel abnormally warm like he has the last 3 days. So, Tylenol, brisk clap, you're going to school, Mister. Especially since the next 2 weeks are holidays. He's gotten smart enough to WANT to stay home "sick" now: Ferris Bueller syndrome, uh-oh. Good thing our thermometers are "instant-read" these days and he doesn't have time to dunk it into his hot chocolate while I'm not looking!
I only have 3 more days of work until my own Christmas break! Realizing this today has made me happy. I think my in-laws arrive on Wednesday next week (or maybe Tuesday), which will help with the entertaining of the kids - as will my neighbor's offer of a play-date with her son. Woo! I'll have a few additional shopping tasks to complete, and some dinner menus to stress over, but other than that, I'm looking forward to some one on one time with my Kindle. Book Club chose a very fluffy Carl Hiassen novel (Star Island), which should be Perfect. I've never read him before but it sounds like just what I need.
All that comes AFTER the Company Christmas Party this weekend, however. Ughhhhh. Do you hate your Company Christmas Party, too? No matter what, I think, they are destined to be LAME. Good thing I have a few good friends at work, and that we've made a pact that no one sits down until ALL of us have arrived. Last year I made that mistake, thinking a random table would be "A good opportunity to GET TO KNOW more people." Wrong-o. DH and I small-talked our way through about 7 minutes of our meal and then got up "for drinks" and never went back. Boring people! Also drunk and unappetizing (one couple were plotting their escape to the hotel room they'd booked, and having a dress rehearsal for what they were planning to do in said room FTLOG). Our friends finally got there and as soon as we could, the 4 of us booked it to the hotel bar. I also WILL NOT participate in the Electric Slide this year, no matter what anyone says!!
I only have 3 more days of work until my own Christmas break! Realizing this today has made me happy. I think my in-laws arrive on Wednesday next week (or maybe Tuesday), which will help with the entertaining of the kids - as will my neighbor's offer of a play-date with her son. Woo! I'll have a few additional shopping tasks to complete, and some dinner menus to stress over, but other than that, I'm looking forward to some one on one time with my Kindle. Book Club chose a very fluffy Carl Hiassen novel (Star Island), which should be Perfect. I've never read him before but it sounds like just what I need.
All that comes AFTER the Company Christmas Party this weekend, however. Ughhhhh. Do you hate your Company Christmas Party, too? No matter what, I think, they are destined to be LAME. Good thing I have a few good friends at work, and that we've made a pact that no one sits down until ALL of us have arrived. Last year I made that mistake, thinking a random table would be "A good opportunity to GET TO KNOW more people." Wrong-o. DH and I small-talked our way through about 7 minutes of our meal and then got up "for drinks" and never went back. Boring people! Also drunk and unappetizing (one couple were plotting their escape to the hotel room they'd booked, and having a dress rehearsal for what they were planning to do in said room FTLOG). Our friends finally got there and as soon as we could, the 4 of us booked it to the hotel bar. I also WILL NOT participate in the Electric Slide this year, no matter what anyone says!!
Tuesday, December 14
Sick days
I'm feeling anxious this morning. AJ has had a fever now for 2 days, hovering between 100 and 102. It started Sunday afternoon, when he said he was tired -- something he NEVER says -- and slept through dinner. Later that night *I* was the one running to toss my cookies (you're welcome), so we both stayed home yesterday (Monday). My third sick day w/a child in the last month-ish. AJ felt fine all day yesterday, although I couldn't get his fever down with ibuprofen or magic. I figured he'd be completely righted by this morning, just a little 24-hour thing, until he came into my room and asked for some Sprite, because his tummy hurt. He was laying his head down on the table at breakfast. Still eating, which I thought was a good sign, but clearly not feeling great. Still a 101 fever.
This is where it gets harder as a 2-working-parent family than if one parent stays home, or even works at home. Of course, DH immediately said he would stay home with him today, which we always do. Switch off, I mean. He probably went to bed last night knowing that might be his fate today -- but I still feel guilty that I'm not there (it's a Mom thing, right?) and I'll feel bad about my work if I have to stay home with him again tomorrow (although I'll take my laptop home, obviously), and my mind's not focusing on all my catch-up work here at 6:50 a.m., not to mention an email that was waiting in my Inbox indicating I'm not completing one of my job-tasks the right way.
It's bad timing, too, since I've already requested off all next week for Christmas. I realize this is why they give us sick days, but when they're all close together like this it's uncomfortable. My boss is kind and I know she would/will say, "Take care of your son and get some rest," but still.
I'm sure I've written this very same post before. And with 2 kids, I'm sure I'll write it again in a couple of weeks when KT gets the germ. Sigh.
I wonder what this weird fever is, that won't go away? DH will take him to the doc today, and gosh, I hope they say, oh, his body's just trying to keep warm in this strangely cold winter we seem to be having, no biggie. But somehow I doubt it.
This is where it gets harder as a 2-working-parent family than if one parent stays home, or even works at home. Of course, DH immediately said he would stay home with him today, which we always do. Switch off, I mean. He probably went to bed last night knowing that might be his fate today -- but I still feel guilty that I'm not there (it's a Mom thing, right?) and I'll feel bad about my work if I have to stay home with him again tomorrow (although I'll take my laptop home, obviously), and my mind's not focusing on all my catch-up work here at 6:50 a.m., not to mention an email that was waiting in my Inbox indicating I'm not completing one of my job-tasks the right way.
It's bad timing, too, since I've already requested off all next week for Christmas. I realize this is why they give us sick days, but when they're all close together like this it's uncomfortable. My boss is kind and I know she would/will say, "Take care of your son and get some rest," but still.
I'm sure I've written this very same post before. And with 2 kids, I'm sure I'll write it again in a couple of weeks when KT gets the germ. Sigh.
I wonder what this weird fever is, that won't go away? DH will take him to the doc today, and gosh, I hope they say, oh, his body's just trying to keep warm in this strangely cold winter we seem to be having, no biggie. But somehow I doubt it.
Wednesday, December 8
More Arts, Please
I am enjoying your lists of traditions (see below); keep 'em coming. :)
Today, though, I want to document a couple of things. I've always loved the arts. And... hee, hee, the crafts. They've both been on my mind.
The Arts, because this season is filled with music, and mine has been speaking to me profoundly. My sister's chorus (oh look! there she is, right on top of their webpage!) recorded an amazing Christmas CD. I've been listening to it daily, but only as much as I can stand, because it's so emotionally moving I can only do one or two songs at a time. I'm amazed by the power that one chord, or, in "The Friendly Beasts," (a song I usually don't care for, btw) ONE NOTE at the lower end of the piano honestly moves me to tears. I've been wishing that I could fill my every HOUR with music and make a living from it. I don't know that that's my calling, but oh, what a joy it would be. I'm ever grateful for my own small part in the world of Music -- like last night, I got to cantor at the Immaculate Conception vigil Mass. Although it took me away from my home and family for yet another hour, I was truly lifted up by being allowed to sing. Even humble little ol' "Hail Mary, Gentle Woman." So, so grateful.
And The Crafts, because yesterday I went to the fabric store to buy grosgrain ribbon and barettes. I'm making KT a few hairbow stocking stuffers all by myself, and the idea of getting out my glue gun and attempting a new thing was surprisingly exciting for me. I don't have time for big craft projects anymore, but even a tiny trip into that side of my creativity gives me a little boost. I need to remember that, and find things I like doing, and DO THEM. Creativity is good! Crafts are okay!
Today, though, I want to document a couple of things. I've always loved the arts. And... hee, hee, the crafts. They've both been on my mind.
The Arts, because this season is filled with music, and mine has been speaking to me profoundly. My sister's chorus (oh look! there she is, right on top of their webpage!) recorded an amazing Christmas CD. I've been listening to it daily, but only as much as I can stand, because it's so emotionally moving I can only do one or two songs at a time. I'm amazed by the power that one chord, or, in "The Friendly Beasts," (a song I usually don't care for, btw) ONE NOTE at the lower end of the piano honestly moves me to tears. I've been wishing that I could fill my every HOUR with music and make a living from it. I don't know that that's my calling, but oh, what a joy it would be. I'm ever grateful for my own small part in the world of Music -- like last night, I got to cantor at the Immaculate Conception vigil Mass. Although it took me away from my home and family for yet another hour, I was truly lifted up by being allowed to sing. Even humble little ol' "Hail Mary, Gentle Woman." So, so grateful.
And The Crafts, because yesterday I went to the fabric store to buy grosgrain ribbon and barettes. I'm making KT a few hairbow stocking stuffers all by myself, and the idea of getting out my glue gun and attempting a new thing was surprisingly exciting for me. I don't have time for big craft projects anymore, but even a tiny trip into that side of my creativity gives me a little boost. I need to remember that, and find things I like doing, and DO THEM. Creativity is good! Crafts are okay!
Tuesday, December 7
Holidays are Here
We put up our tree this weekend and got the house decorated with minimal trouble and fuss. I mean, there’s always nonsense when you’re asking a six-year-old and a two-year-old to calmly (ha!) put the ornaments on, one at a time please (ha!), and no, don’t take them off againDon’tTOUCHTHATONE (ha?)… but mostly we got it done in under 2 hours. Then Sunday I got the other inside decorations up (stockings, garlands, candles) while DH vacuumed. The kids just wandered around behind me looking at all the new things. It was peaceful. I do remember them both getting sent to their rooms for throwing things at one point. But usually I stress about the whole ordeal, and get overwhelmed when I see ALL the plastic tubs of Christmas decorations we’ve collected over the years. Yesterday I didn’t, though. We have too much stuff so I don’t even attempt to put everything up anymore. I think the house looks lovely, and wow, is it CLEAN! Cleaner than it’s been in a long while, I’m sad-but-happy to admit.
All that’s left is for me to display the Christmas china. One of my favorite things.
Tradition is a big deal for me, so our Elf on the Shelf is making his daily appearance, which the kids love. Aside: AJ had to do a Social Studies project yesterday about a family tradition. I didn't want to do the Elf because it's so common around here. I couldn’t really think of a great holiday one. I mean an Event. We haven’t ever adopted something like a Wintery Walk around the Neighborhood to look at lights, or a Christmas Pajamas and Photo on Christmas Eve tradition. I felt kind-of weird about that, but had to put something – I told him, ‘How about our summer tradition of a family reunion at the beach?’ It IS something we do every year, after all. Is that lame? I don’t know. I could have said Christmas Cherries Jubilee (see below), but we haven’t exactly done that every year. I guess we’re a young-ish family, and traditions will develop eventually And I’d rather they develop organically and not be forced. Anyway, the Elf: We suspect AJ has an inkling about the Truth, and KT is slightly afraid of Pepper, understandably, but it’s still a fun thing to do every year. We had a little festive snack after decorating the tree, as we do (tradition). This year it was pumpkin bread (from a mix) -- a HUGE hit. I’d like to make some Christmas cookies one weekend, as well. There are so many kid-friendly recipes from which to choose!
We’ll be home for Christmas, and DH’s parents will be with us. I’m singing with the choir at Midnight Mass, but I think we’ll take the kids to an earlier one and fight for parking with everyone else. I usually do some kind of soup (like baked potato) for Christmas Eve dinner, and then a festive breakfast on Christmas morning. I haven’t decided what to make, exactly, for Christmas dinner, but I am requiring myself to include my Mom’s sausage dressing, so that probably means turkey, and I want cranberry jelly from the can and I want Cherries Jubliee, even though my Mom won’t be here to light and stir the fire. Oh! I think I also want to make her bread pudding at some point this year. Lots, lots to do. :)
All that’s left is for me to display the Christmas china. One of my favorite things.
Tradition is a big deal for me, so our Elf on the Shelf is making his daily appearance, which the kids love. Aside: AJ had to do a Social Studies project yesterday about a family tradition. I didn't want to do the Elf because it's so common around here. I couldn’t really think of a great holiday one. I mean an Event. We haven’t ever adopted something like a Wintery Walk around the Neighborhood to look at lights, or a Christmas Pajamas and Photo on Christmas Eve tradition. I felt kind-of weird about that, but had to put something – I told him, ‘How about our summer tradition of a family reunion at the beach?’ It IS something we do every year, after all. Is that lame? I don’t know. I could have said Christmas Cherries Jubilee (see below), but we haven’t exactly done that every year. I guess we’re a young-ish family, and traditions will develop eventually And I’d rather they develop organically and not be forced. Anyway, the Elf: We suspect AJ has an inkling about the Truth, and KT is slightly afraid of Pepper, understandably, but it’s still a fun thing to do every year. We had a little festive snack after decorating the tree, as we do (tradition). This year it was pumpkin bread (from a mix) -- a HUGE hit. I’d like to make some Christmas cookies one weekend, as well. There are so many kid-friendly recipes from which to choose!
We’ll be home for Christmas, and DH’s parents will be with us. I’m singing with the choir at Midnight Mass, but I think we’ll take the kids to an earlier one and fight for parking with everyone else. I usually do some kind of soup (like baked potato) for Christmas Eve dinner, and then a festive breakfast on Christmas morning. I haven’t decided what to make, exactly, for Christmas dinner, but I am requiring myself to include my Mom’s sausage dressing, so that probably means turkey, and I want cranberry jelly from the can and I want Cherries Jubliee, even though my Mom won’t be here to light and stir the fire. Oh! I think I also want to make her bread pudding at some point this year. Lots, lots to do. :)
Friday, December 3
The grumpies, some links and Christmas Shopping!
I’m in a grumpy mood, for, um…. lunar reasons, as well as my kids being growly monsters to me this morning, AND S’bux not having Christmas Blend available to drink, only to purchase as beans or grounds. Boo. I wanted to taste that today and feel cheery.
In an attempt to turn the tides, let me now talk about Things I Like. Nicole suggested I do this, as did my Darling Husband, because then my Christmas wishes would be out there for the people who need to see them. I have an Amazon wish list, but every time I go to ‘shop’ for my own list, I start feeling overwhelmed and unable to focus. For some reason writing down What I Like in a Word document is easier.
I like Wine. Swistle suggested this as a gift for people who don’t want anything, and I agreed with her! It’s slightly expensive-ish, but when you’re trying to develop a wine project, it’s an investment, am I right?? I'm concerned about delivery - someone said they ship "Signature required," and I'm never home. But I like the idea of a 3-month subscription, delivering 1 Red/1 White, every other month. (Seems rude to get so specific. I want I want I want.)
I like wine glasses (but not my cobalt blue ones). I want some stemless ones, even though they’re not “in” anymore, according to my home décor and entertaining sources. Our “thing” this year has been Netflix and wine, when we remember it and I’m not half-dead-asleep on the couch on a weekend night, and it’s uncomfortable to hold a stemmed glass when you’re trying to snuggle under a blanket in the dark.
I like Purses. I love purses, in fact. I haven't bought as many this year as usual. I've never had a Vera Bradley (and this one's on sale), so it would be a fun, new look for me. And naturally I like Coach, but they are not in a very jolly price range so I wouldn't ask anybody to buy one for me. Still, fun to look!
I like Jewelery. I say this every year, but I can never have enough new earrings. When you wear an accessory every day, it’s nice to have plenty to rotate around, you know? Even cheap ones from Target are a welcome gift for me, because I rarely buy myself new ones (except I DID buy a pair the other day, on clearance, and that was FUN)! I prefer silver as a general rule, but gold is making a comeback and I don’t have anything NEW in gold. I need a long, bangly necklace of some sort (cheap), too.
I like Coffee. My Mom always gets me Starbucks gift cards and I LURVH her for that. But coffees for my home use, or VIA instant flavored packets, would be rilly cute in a stocking! A friend has been giving me her Vanilla Gevalia coffee, and it’s delicious. Really, any pretty flavored coffee gift set would suit me just fine.
I am surprised to find I like Aprons. It's the one Amazon browsing success I've had. They seem to be making a comeback, and my husband will tell you that I am a MESS in the kitchen. I’ve ruined plenty of white blouses while cooking spaghetti. Dumb. One apron that I think is cute is this one at C&B. (Aside: I love red. It’s been my favorite color since childhood. Is that odd? Never changes. None of the other colors in the rainbow sparkle, for me, like red.) I also totally love this one, even though it is decidedly NOT red.
Can’t you just see me, decked out in my apron, with new silver earrings, and a stemless glass of red wine in-hand while I cook? Me too.
In an attempt to turn the tides, let me now talk about Things I Like. Nicole suggested I do this, as did my Darling Husband, because then my Christmas wishes would be out there for the people who need to see them. I have an Amazon wish list, but every time I go to ‘shop’ for my own list, I start feeling overwhelmed and unable to focus. For some reason writing down What I Like in a Word document is easier.
I like Wine. Swistle suggested this as a gift for people who don’t want anything, and I agreed with her! It’s slightly expensive-ish, but when you’re trying to develop a wine project, it’s an investment, am I right?? I'm concerned about delivery - someone said they ship "Signature required," and I'm never home. But I like the idea of a 3-month subscription, delivering 1 Red/1 White, every other month. (Seems rude to get so specific. I want I want I want.)
I like wine glasses (but not my cobalt blue ones). I want some stemless ones, even though they’re not “in” anymore, according to my home décor and entertaining sources. Our “thing” this year has been Netflix and wine, when we remember it and I’m not half-dead-asleep on the couch on a weekend night, and it’s uncomfortable to hold a stemmed glass when you’re trying to snuggle under a blanket in the dark.
I like Purses. I love purses, in fact. I haven't bought as many this year as usual. I've never had a Vera Bradley (and this one's on sale), so it would be a fun, new look for me. And naturally I like Coach, but they are not in a very jolly price range so I wouldn't ask anybody to buy one for me. Still, fun to look!
I like Jewelery. I say this every year, but I can never have enough new earrings. When you wear an accessory every day, it’s nice to have plenty to rotate around, you know? Even cheap ones from Target are a welcome gift for me, because I rarely buy myself new ones (except I DID buy a pair the other day, on clearance, and that was FUN)! I prefer silver as a general rule, but gold is making a comeback and I don’t have anything NEW in gold. I need a long, bangly necklace of some sort (cheap), too.
I like Coffee. My Mom always gets me Starbucks gift cards and I LURVH her for that. But coffees for my home use, or VIA instant flavored packets, would be rilly cute in a stocking! A friend has been giving me her Vanilla Gevalia coffee, and it’s delicious. Really, any pretty flavored coffee gift set would suit me just fine.
I am surprised to find I like Aprons. It's the one Amazon browsing success I've had. They seem to be making a comeback, and my husband will tell you that I am a MESS in the kitchen. I’ve ruined plenty of white blouses while cooking spaghetti. Dumb. One apron that I think is cute is this one at C&B. (Aside: I love red. It’s been my favorite color since childhood. Is that odd? Never changes. None of the other colors in the rainbow sparkle, for me, like red.) I also totally love this one, even though it is decidedly NOT red.
Can’t you just see me, decked out in my apron, with new silver earrings, and a stemless glass of red wine in-hand while I cook? Me too.
Wednesday, December 1
A is for Aladdin, B is for Belle…
Once you start looking, you realize that Disney basically owns the entire known universe, especially the commercial parts. ESPN, the Herbie movies, both old and new, the Three Little Pigs for heaven’s sake, and ABC News. They may even station a glittery Tinkerbell over the A-B-Cs, themselves, one of these days. I wouldn’t be surprised.
You kind-of want to dislike them for that. For commercializing everything and charging an arm and a leg for it. For playing that incessant song on the Ride That Shall Not Be Named for your earworm convenience (on the boats, with the dancing dolls). For putting Princess stuff EVERYWHERE from the time your girl babies are born, including on diapers and underwear. And for making you feel like you WANT to pay an arm and a leg when you’re there at the parks, because it’s MAGIC. They have conned you! There’s nothing magic about it, it’s just the savviest of savvy businessmen getting ready to hear the ka-ching.
But, in fact, it IS pretty magical.
KT meets Princess Aurora by running up to her and promptly telling her all the things she knows, about her friend MacKenzie, and school, and going to the fair, and cake, and Dolly… like she’s just met her BFF in person for the very first time. I cried.
And AJ, seriously committed to his appointment to the Jedi Academy at Disney Hollywood Studios. He learned his moves and especially made his Daddy proud (near to tears, I hope he doesn't mind if I mention) by fighting Darth Maul. In a Jedi robe! All I can say is CUTE! And BEWARE, Dark Side.
We had a wonderful, magical time this Thanksgiving. Thank you, Mom and Dad, and thank you, Walt Disney. I'm grateful for you, too!
You kind-of want to dislike them for that. For commercializing everything and charging an arm and a leg for it. For playing that incessant song on the Ride That Shall Not Be Named for your earworm convenience (on the boats, with the dancing dolls). For putting Princess stuff EVERYWHERE from the time your girl babies are born, including on diapers and underwear. And for making you feel like you WANT to pay an arm and a leg when you’re there at the parks, because it’s MAGIC. They have conned you! There’s nothing magic about it, it’s just the savviest of savvy businessmen getting ready to hear the ka-ching.
But, in fact, it IS pretty magical.
KT meets Princess Aurora by running up to her and promptly telling her all the things she knows, about her friend MacKenzie, and school, and going to the fair, and cake, and Dolly… like she’s just met her BFF in person for the very first time. I cried.
And AJ, seriously committed to his appointment to the Jedi Academy at Disney Hollywood Studios. He learned his moves and especially made his Daddy proud (near to tears, I hope he doesn't mind if I mention) by fighting Darth Maul. In a Jedi robe! All I can say is CUTE! And BEWARE, Dark Side.
We had a wonderful, magical time this Thanksgiving. Thank you, Mom and Dad, and thank you, Walt Disney. I'm grateful for you, too!
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